[Windows] Use enum to configure UI thread policy - #163727

#162935 added a boolean setting to allow merged platform and UI thread. Using boolean doesn't allow for opting out of the behavior once we enable it by default, which is something we will likely want to allow, at least for a period of time.

This PR replaces the boolean with following enum:

// Configures the thread policy for running the UI isolate.
typedef enum {
  // Default value. Currently will run the UI isolate on separate thread,
  // later will be changed to running the UI isolate on platform thread.
  Default,
  // Run the UI isolate on platform thread.
  RunOnPlatformThread,
  // Run the UI isolate on a separate thread.
  RunOnSeparateThread,
} FlutterDesktopUIThreadPolicy;

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